@Reacon holy crap your my hero game config works
i am new to modding i did not know dlcs get outdated too
thanks!

@Reacon first I put my dlcs and their codes in gta 5 crashes when loading story mode
then I removed some possible vehicles that are possibily causing the crash
but however I adjust stuff gta only not crash when I have no addon vehicles but only nativetrainer and scripthook

(also I have speedometer mod working)

so the new scripthook was out, I did my "mods" folder again with updated x64e i l w and update folder
added scripthook v and enhanced native trainer and they work
but I played around with my old vehicle files and they just don't work anymore
all I did was modify extratitlessomething.xml and dlclist.xml and added the dlc packs

did I miss anyting?