Rename one of the metas vehiclelayouts_nameofcar, example vehiclelayouts_rx7.meta or vehiclelayouts_RHD.meta.
Then add the newly named meta to your content.xml like you would with a car mod, Example:
<Item>
<filename>dlc_MODDING:/data/ai/vehiclelayouts_rx7.meta</filename>
<fileType>VEHICLE_LAYOUTS_FILE</fileType>
<locked value="true"/>
<disabled value="true"/>
<persistent value="true"/>
<overlay value="true"/>
</Item>
AND
<Item>dlc_MODDING:/data/ai/vehiclelayouts_rx7.meta</Item>
So basically instead of merging them, you can just have multiple metas