Well, i found solution to one of my problems with 3ds max.
I leave it here, so i hope that will help somebody too
How to properly import a ped model in 3D MAX (if the model after import is missing bone names, or skinning applied wrong)?
For an example, the model's name is "ig_beverly.ydd".
Export it to the openFormats(press RMB and select "Save content").
Find the game .YFT file (it's often the same name and location, like "ig_beverly.yft"), and export its skeleton to the same folder as the model(press RMB and select "Export skeleton to openFormats").
Go to that folder, find "ig_beverly.skel" file, and add " FULL"(without quotes, and mind the whitespace here) to the name of it, so the full file name would be like "ig_beverly FULL.skel".
Now you can import "ig_beverly.odd" file from that folder, and it will load proper skeleton and skinning.
The same scheme applies to .YDR files.